To be happy,
we must not be too concerned with others.
-Albert Camus, The Fall, 1956
if u observe a really happy man, u will find him building a boat, writing a symphony, educating his son, growing double dahlias in his garden, or looking for dinosaur eggs in the Gobi desert. He will not be striving for it as a goal in itself. He will have bcome aware that he is happy in the course of living life twenty-four crowded hours of the day.